December 8, 2012

to the theatre

My Mom and I took Avery to the community theatre this afternoon to watch the Kelowna ballet's performance of The Nutcracker.  It was magical and charming and beautiful and even more wonderful than I remembered.  Avery was quietly excited as we rushed to get there on time and found our seats and waited in the hush as the theatre became dark.  I'm not sure she knew at all what to expect.  We have read the story often, so there wasn't any confusion there, but the idea of watching real ballerinas and performers on a stage had her a bit puzzled before the curtain lifted.  
She sat still and focussed and enjoyed it very much, although a two hour performance is a little long for a four year old and she did get a little antsy in the second Act.  My mom took me to see the Nutcracker ballet a few times when I was young, so it was really sweet to share it with Avery together with her.
When we came home there was another surprise waiting as Nana and Daddy had set up the Christmas tree while we were out.  There was one box of special ornaments waiting just for Avery to hang on the tree, which she did while dancing and twirling and pretending to be Clara.
 This one is going to be hearing a lot of "just look, don't touch!".
It's a full weekend with the ballet today, plans to go see the Living Nativity drama and Bethlehem village tomorrow, and a sweet date night with Levi last night.  Mom offered babysitting and we made plans in a flash.  Such a treat to be out together!  We went to see Skyfall at the theatre and then savoured yummy desserts and fancy coffees at Earls.  I love date nights.
The girls are tucked into bed now.  Levi's out playing games with my brothers.  And me?  I think I hear a favorite Christmas movie and some popcorn calling my name.  Goodnight!


merry making

A couple days ago we had ourselves a little fun with St Nicholas Day.  We've talked for a while that it would be neat to start incorporating some part of this day into the blend of traditions we're starting to do with our little family.  Why not, right?  The night before, we told Avery that there's been a story told for years and years about a man named St Nicholas who was generous and kind and that it's who we get our story of Santa Claus from.  We told her a little bit about the story and how children started to anticipate his coming by leaving shoes or stockings by their chimneys or doors for him to fill with sweets, presents and coins, and we left it at that and sent her to bed.  Practical Avery decided that our fireplace wouldn't welcome him very well because it's all closed up in glass.
That night I sewed up a couple bags, with tags for each girl, and filled them each with a pair of cute new jammies, a Christmas orange, and a bag of chocolate coins and left them by the fireplace.  In the morning as Avery sat down for breakfast she saw the bags and her face just lit up!  She knew exactly what they were and who they were from - St Nicholas had come!
If Avery has any memory at all the magic should have been destroyed by the fact that the special bags from St Nicholas happened to match a top that mommy once wore ... and a table runner.  We played a loud and happy Santa Claus playlist all day (including some vintage goodies that I hadn't even heard before), ate more chocolate than usual, and that's about it.  But it was fun and we'll do it up even more next year!
We love the idea of enjoying St Nicholas Day for several reasons, actually.

a) We figured it was a great way to have fun with the story of Santa Claus, present him with a little more interesting history than usual, and encourage the joy of receiving surprise gifts.  We haven't really stirred up any of the magic of Santa over Christmas Day itself to this point, and, in our house, we've preferred to keep Christmas Day more focused on the gift of Christ to the world, so this is a great way to enjoy the merriment of Santa early in the season and not have to shoo him away.
b) Celebrating St Nicholas Day and anticipating the arrival of Sinterklaas with his gifts and goodies was actually a part of the Dutch traditions that Levi's Mom grew up with.  On the eve of St Nicholas day, they would set out a carrot and bowl of water for Sinterklaas' horse.  They would anticipate the arrival of a package sent from their Opa in Holland filled with special treats and sweets, and their dad (Levi's Opa) would dress up as Sinterklaas to come bearing gifts - along with a sidekick to play the role of Zwarte Piet and bag up the naughtiest kid.  They'd feast on chocolate letters and pepernoten, chocolate coins and marzipan.  It's a fantastic tradition and how fun that we can hint at some family heritage by dipping into the fun of St Nicholas Day even just a little bit.
c) It's a great time to give the girls new holiday jammies since they can now wear them all through December.  Perfect, right!  The ones I found this time make me think of peppermint candy and dreaming of sugar plums.
Have to make a little side note here to announce that our baby is starting to walk!!  She's getting more and more confident this week and can take quite a few steps all on her own.  She even got up to walk all by herself tonight without anyone prompting her to do it.  Haven't caught her on video yet, but we will.
Otherwise this week we've been doing a little more here and there to make our space merry.  Our moms have both found odds and ends to donate, including this tiny tree with tiny ornaments that Nana thought Avery would enjoy.  The little people have been part of a dozen mini pageants already, dancing around the base of the tree and left in a clutter for mama to redecorate after bedtime.
I made up a very last-minute advent countdown for Avery.  Strung along a line in our living area are 25 paper bags with just a couple little things for her each day.  It's been just enough for her to learn the idea of waiting and anticipating.  Each bag has some foil-wrapped chocolate, a card that sometimes suggests something fun we might do (like baking cookies, seeing the ballet, painting our toes red, or watching a christmas movie), an ornament sticker that she adds to a paper Christmas tree each day, and a card that tells us what story we'll read from her Jesus Storybook Bible at bedtime (idea for that found here).  
And we also gifted Avery a Playmobil nativity set that she can play with to her heart's content without anyone fussing over how it should be arranged or the need to be careful with anything.  It's all hers and it's pretty awesome.  It's been the only focus of playtime ever since she discovered it set up on the bookshelf a few mornings ago.  This girl plays Mary and Joseph in some form or another on a daily basis, so we knew this would be a big hit.

It all just gets more and more fun with these little kiddos to share Christmas with.  I'm heaped full with ideas of what else we can do ... next year.


November 24, 2012

lately

I've sat down to blog several times this week - an actual catch up of what's been happening and how the girls are and what I've been thinking about - but I kept getting totally overwhelmed and ditching it all.  I was complaining way more than I'm okay with.  For some reason, I haven't wanted this blog to be a place where I share what's difficult or stressin' me out.  Yes budgeting is frustrating, the house hasn't sold, we live in a basement, my children are shy and I don't know how to help, blah blah blahhhhhh.  But there are so many wonderful things in this life of mine and we're doing great.  I've loved having this space as a way to record those gifts that make the burdens of life seem lighter.  It's for capturing the girls in the stages they're in and using it as a way to see past the frustrations of parenting.  Because of that, it might look like we're perfect around here.  Well ... we're not.

I like the way my friend, Melissa, journaled today and I'm going to follow suit.  
Right Now :: I'm enjoying the most peaceful, uninterrupted afternoon working away in my sewing corner, listening to Christmas music, cutting out fabric and matching up colors to make a string of new dollies for the shop.  Levi took both girls to the swimming pool today (brave man) and it must be going well because they're still gone!  
Loving :: The weather here.  It's more like the coast with low, grey clouds and rainy days than it usually is, but I am loving that we can still go for walks and play on the swings and quickly drive off in the van without spending twenty minutes hacking away at ice.  Thank you, BC. 
Last Item Off the Sewing Machine :: I just finished up these two little lovelies.  They're a custom order for a couple of Filipino sisters and I think they turned out so cute.  I'm really enjoying the pace that my little shop is keeping me going at.  Thanks for all your support, friends, and for pointing out my shop to your circles! 
Hanging on Our Walls :: I am loving the latest outpouring of Avery's creativity.  It's amazing to watch how her drawing is changing and how her creativity is becoming more detailed and project focussed.  And oh those fingers ... those many many fingers.  We've gotten back into drawing and painting mini murals.  Hospitals and schools, playgrounds and picnics.  She asked if we could draw things that she could be when she grows up: a musician, a firefighter, a swim teacher, and an art teacher were the ideas that day.  I still think she has a bent towards the surgeon route.  She's always adding blood and scalpels to the ever popular 'mommy in delivery' scenes (her idea, not mine).  
Keeping us Busy :: The baby is making all the difference in gradually making every day feel much more busy than usual without me actually knowing why.  She's constantly moving, yelling, drooling, laughing, squirming, climbing, exploring.  We feel like we have a pet billy goat around since she'll climb onto anything low enough that stands still long enough.  Crouch down to open a drawer and Ella will beetle over and be perched on your knee in a flash.  Stand too close and she'll grab onto the back of your knees and push you around like a walker.  She is days away from walking on her own.  She can do a few steps at a strong forward tilt, but she's just as stubborn as her sister was and will surely wait until she's good and confident before showing off her skills. 

Making me Merry :: I'm full into listening to Christmas music and doing whatever I can to begin drawing myself into the most wonderful time of the year.  The start of advent is one week away and I haven't prepared, like most years, in the way that I'd hoped.  I'm thinking of my favorite festive things I have packed tight in boxes in our storage locker.  I took a trip out there today, along with my Dad and Nephew, to pick up our winter tires and look for a few needed items.  But alas, those holly-jolly-making boxes were deeply buried.  
Appreciating :: Levi.  His job is going good and he's been working hard to finish ploughing through the ginormous mortgage broker course material.  This week he finished with the math-heavy assignments and he's now hoping to head down to Vancouver to take the final test at the end of this month.  This will make him certified and allow him to do more in the office than he can do at this point.  I'm so grateful for what he's doing.  We know it's not teaching, but it means we can be here for a season, catch up a little bit, take a deep breath and maybe even buy a coffee.   And yes, Levi was reverse-molting for movember (for the sake of solidarity).  The girls liked to wiggle their fingers over it.  He shaved it off this morning - finally impatient with it.  It doesn't photograph so well ...

Happy weekending to you!


November 9, 2012

first snow

Shuffling into the kitchen to warm up some milk for Ella this morning I gasped when I looked out the window.  Snow!  There's something so hushed and calming about that first snowy morning, to stand at the window a moment before moving on with regular tasks.  It's a good day for running errands, driving past the whitened forest and feeling the wet flakes as we walk from place to place.

It's a good day for pumpkin spice muffins at breakfast.  For cloud dough to build and sculpt when the first snow is too wet for snowmen.  For mailing packages, and for picking up some for me.  For wandering the mall that's starting to look festive.  For an impromptu book purchase because it was impossible to resist.  For shopping together to fill our 'operation' shoeboxes.  For playing ballerina with her and keeping my secret that she'll get to see the Nutcracker ballet in just one month.  For christmas oranges.  And maybe, just a little tiny bit, for some j-i-n-g-l-e bells.


October 26, 2012

first birthday

Last week we celebrated Ella's first birthday with a simple little party at home with just us, her Nana and her Gramma.  She was a happy little clam all day as we went to preschool in the morning and had a quiet play day at home in the afternoon.  Supper was a roast chicken and sautéed french beans and red potatoes - not necessarily Ella's choice, but she'll eat pretty near anything we give her.
Her eyes grew wide at the one little birthday candle.  Avery and I baked a simple strawberry cake in the afternoon - perfect for a simple first birthday.  No frosting thank you.  
She devoured her slice of cake and patiently worked at her scoop of ice cream with her little fingers until it was time to lick the plate clean.
She was treated to a few new goodies - dollies and books and fun new bath toys, a great big teddy bear and a new backpack carrier that we can use to take her on walks and hikes (a second hand score found by Nana).  All around a happy first birthday for our sweet girly.  


October 18, 2012

one year

6th day - - - 6th month - - - 12th month

The whole "stick a baby in a basket and calmly snap photos" idea went over swimmingly for the first two installations, but Ella was not so easily persuaded this time around.  No surprise there.  As far as I'm concerned - they're perfect.  Angry tears and all.  My how you've grown, sweet baby.
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Happy one year, Ella!  You charm the socks off us all every day.  You're ready to move, stand, walk and it won't be long before you're tearing around on two feet.  You're starting to feed yourself with a spoon - with no results, but my aren't you clever?  You've got a little sparkiness in you.  You laugh like an imp when we say no-no.  You laugh with pride when you try something new.  You laugh with glee when your sister runs circles around you.  You laugh with hearty appetite when we let you chomp your mouth down on our arms and cheeks.  You love your baby dollies and looking at books, knocking down blocks and exploring.  You shake your fists and yell when something is taken from you.  You crawl through the house with a toy plugged in your mouth like a makeshift soother.  You have 8 pearly little teeth.  You sleep really well and nap twice a day, with pink, raggy bunny tucked in your fist.  You're a darling baby, Ella.  We love you!